By Byanka Olivarez Gomez
College life is exciting, but balancing it with family expectations can be tough. Latino families often value hard work and education, so juggling school and family can feel overwhelming. Here are a few tips on how to handle it:
- Set Boundaries
- As a student, you need time to focus on your assignments and academic obligations. Be honest with your family and let them know when you need time for studying. You do not need to feel guilty for prioritizing your education. Create a schedule and share it with them– explain to them when you have time to talk to them and when you will need time to study.
- Be Honest
- College can be a stressful time. Be open and upfront with your family about how you are feeling. Don’t be afraid to tell your family you’re stressed or need time for yourself. Having these conversations can make it easier for your family to understand when you need time to yourself. It’s okay to need a break.
- Use Campus Resources
- Take advantage of the resources available to you on campus. Lean on student organizations, counselors, or professors for support. If you are struggling with a certain class, set up a time with a tutor. If you feel disconnected or isolated, join a student organization that fits your interests.
- Stay Connected
- While it is important to carve out time for academics, it is equally as important to maintain communication with your family. Keep in touch with your family, even if it is for a quick check-in. You don’t have to choose between them and your studies.
- Remember Your Why
- You are in college to build a better future for yourself and your family. When things get overwhelming, remember why you’re doing it. Your commitment to your education creates opportunities for yourself and your family. It might help to write out your goals and what you want to gain from pursuing higher education. Seeing the bigger picture can help you stay motivated throughout difficult times.